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As a mother, sometimes I build things up into a big intimidating THING, and then when whatever it is happens it's so not a big deal. I think I'm not alone in this. I need to give my kid a little more credit where credit's due because she's handled change well since she was an infant. I'm apparently the one who is averse to it.
For probably at least a year, we've limited Arden's pacifier use to sleeping only. It was very little upset to stop having it in the car, which had previously been another time when she could use it. I knew we were pushing the boundary of when the dentist was going to say it was time. I've been talking to her a lot about how she was a big girl and didn't need it anymore, yada, yada, yada. The thing is - Arden's not a very good sleeper. She's a fabulous napper, and at bedtime she usually goes to sleep pretty easily. Then she wakes up to three times a night crying incessantly. I've done a little research and it sounds like night terrors. Because of her poor sleep I was reluctant to change anything in her routine.

As a mother, sometimes I build things up into a big intimidating THING, and then when whatever it is happens it's so not a big deal. I think I'm not alone in this. I need to give my kid a little more credit where credit's due because she's handled change well since she was an infant. I'm apparently the one who is averse to it.
For probably at least a year, we've limited Arden's pacifier use to sleeping only. It was very little upset to stop having it in the car, which had previously been another time when she could use it. I knew we were pushing the boundary of when the dentist was going to say it was time. I've been talking to her a lot about how she was a big girl and didn't need it anymore, yada, yada, yada. The thing is - Arden's not a very good sleeper. She's a fabulous napper, and at bedtime she usually goes to sleep pretty easily. Then she wakes up to three times a night crying incessantly. I've done a little research and it sounds like night terrors. Because of her poor sleep I was reluctant to change anything in her routine.
Here's how the Project No Pacifier went:
Thursday after her dentist appointment, I told her she wasn't going to have her pacifiers any more and that we were going to go and trade them in for a big prize. Arden - "a big horsey prize?" Me - "sure". Thursday nap went fine. Thursday night time was a little rough, but I think more because we had been babysitting at a friend's house and got home a bit late. Friday nap - fine. I had her decorate a paper bag to hold her pacifiers after nap. She enjoyed a half hour of crafty time. Friday night - only one bout of crying, so an improvement from normal. Saturday nap - fine. Saturday afternoon we went to Target and she got a little purple sock monkey as her big prize. I made sure to get in line with a female checker and explained that we were trading our suckies in for a big girl prize. The cashier went along with it no problem and we went home with a new purple sock monkey and without pacifiers. The End. A complete non-event.
Thursday after her dentist appointment, I told her she wasn't going to have her pacifiers any more and that we were going to go and trade them in for a big prize. Arden - "a big horsey prize?" Me - "sure". Thursday nap went fine. Thursday night time was a little rough, but I think more because we had been babysitting at a friend's house and got home a bit late. Friday nap - fine. I had her decorate a paper bag to hold her pacifiers after nap. She enjoyed a half hour of crafty time. Friday night - only one bout of crying, so an improvement from normal. Saturday nap - fine. Saturday afternoon we went to Target and she got a little purple sock monkey as her big prize. I made sure to get in line with a female checker and explained that we were trading our suckies in for a big girl prize. The cashier went along with it no problem and we went home with a new purple sock monkey and without pacifiers. The End. A complete non-event.
I did almost the same internal buildup about switching over to her toddler bed, and that also was no problem. Have any of you found yourselves making things a bigger deal than your child?











































